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[–]loveSloaneDebate King[S] 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Lol How long before “you’re not my type” gets labeled as transphobic irl?

[–]Omina_SentenziosaSarcastic Ovalord 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Turning them down is already considered transphobic no matter the reason you give, because they automatically link a refusal with "I am trans and they don' t want to fuck me".

I don' t want to have sex with anyone female, I don' t want to have sex with anyone who claims to have a gender identity and preferred pronouns, I don' t want to have sex with anyone who has had body modification regarding their sexual characteristics, and I don' t want to have sex with anyone who puts their identification before their biological sex.

And I don' t care if those people don' t like that I tell them exactly the reason I turn them down. If that makes me transphobic, so be it.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I agree. I don’t think the word “transphobia” has any real value left.

Once not finding someone sexually desirable becomes bigotry, I don’t care about being called a bigot.

[–]Omina_SentenziosaSarcastic Ovalord 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Indeed. I mean, what am I supposed to do on the matter? Force myself to have sex with people I don' t want to have sex with so that I can prove I am not a bigot and make them happy?

I don' t care if they are happy or not, especially if my happiness has to die for their sake.

And if my refusal to have sex with someone comes indeed from bigotry, it' s not going to go away just because I force myself to spread my legs. In fact, I think it would become worse. I would still be a "bigot" because I would still not want to have sex with them, I would just do what is socially acceptable instead of what I want.

The only thing you need to ask yourself when someone propositions you is "do I want to?". If the answer is anything but an enthusiastic yes, then it' s a problem. I personally find disgusting all the people who scream "no means no" and then make exceptions for whatever minority they cheer for. I have seen the same fucking argument for HIV positive patients, that you are a bigot if you don' t want to have sex with them because what' s the matter, you just have to take medicines if you get AIDS, it' s not a big deal!

It' s insane.