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[–]worried19[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

What about sex that doesn't involve BDSM? There don't have to be dominant or submissive roles.

What do you mean by "gross sexual aspect?"

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

I don't like seeing others' private parts, and I don't want my penis touching another person let alone inside of one of the grossest parts of them. Having sex with someone would be both boring and gross to me.

[–]worried19[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Fair enough. Since you're asexual, I can't imagine you would enjoy it nor should you feel pressured to engage in anything you don't want to do.

But just so you know, it doesn't have to involve BDSM. I've never had sex where a power dynamic was involved.

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

That's the only way I could like it. Though I would still prefer there not to be any sex, or even nudity.

[–]worried19[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Why would you like that? You want people to control you or treat you badly?

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I would love to be kidnapped by a woman (unless she's ugly). You know about as much as I do as to why. No sexual acts, no nudity, those gross me out.

[–]worried19[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Do you think it's related to some sort of trauma?

[–]Vulptex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I never had any trauma. It's natural for me. I also like women who are big and strong and preferrably a bit taller than me. Like a chad or a "bad girl". It's not in a typical femdom or sissy way, it's more akin to what women typically want from men. I'm actually averse to boobies and butts. I like one or two tattoos if it fits her because it enchances the badass image. Tattoos are something I hear other men complaining they absolutely can't stand. I lack any provider or protection instincts and must admit I like being on the receiving end instead. It baffles me how other men are attracted to petty petite dolls who can't do anything, let alone prefer them. And yes, in my experience nearly all men are this way, and vice versa for women, me being the only exception I know of, and I often legit trigger people if I reveal this because it's so wrong to them. In general my actual desire is very low, enough that I'd enjoy a roleplay but nothing that would make me seriously base my entire life around it like 99% of men do. No intentions to date, marry, or have children, which is also odd, especially for a male who's biologically supposed to be going crazy about having sex and continuing his bloodline. I actually lack quite a lot of human behavioral instincts, even basic ones. It's enough that I feel like a different species and would probably renounce my humanity if I could. And my citizenship in this world too, because I don't like it either.

Edit: just got banned for disagreeing with a mod, how dare I