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[–]SnowAssMan 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Are trans people ever more likely to fit the opposite sex stereotype? Usually their gendered behavioural trends totally undermine their self-identification.

It's not nature, since female animals can take on an active role. Anyone who has owned a pet knows that the female ones hump the male ones when they are in heat. It's only during copulation that the female is sexually submissive. Our culture's sex is based on the copulation model, despite most sexual encounters not being for the purpose of reproduction. It's the norm/average or the default, so in most instances the male will be in the active role, while the female is in a passive role. It's culture, not nature & is the opposite of ideal.

Sex can either be selfishly masturbatory, or selflessly masturbatory, or mutual, which is sort of a mixture between the aforementioned two. It can also be male-cantered or female-cantered. The norm is male-centred & selfishly masturbatory.

[–]worried19[S] 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Are trans people ever more likely to fit the opposite sex stereotype? Usually their gendered behavioural trends totally undermine their self-identification.

Good question. A lot of natal male TRAs display male socialization when it comes to sex, hence you see jokes from the worst ones about "raping TERFs with their girldicks." But then there seem to be a segment who believe that sexual submissiveness makes one female, or that sexual submissiveness is the definition of being female. And some of them seem to have been inspired to transition from "sissy porn.' So they claim to be these submissive feminine beings, but their overall socialization is still full of male entitlement. Of course I'm not talking about all trans women here. But it's a noticeable feature of some, especially those who decide to identify as lesbian women.

It's only during copulation that the female is sexually submissive

Really not even then if you define submissiveness as a mindset rather than physical receptivity. And of course pointing to animals is a double-edged sword because we're not bees or clownfish or anything other than human, but hyenas are an interesting case. They're quite female dominant in all areas of life, including sex.

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Anyone who has owned a pet knows that the female ones hump the male ones when they are in heat.

Oh yeah. I've had a few spayed female alphas who will hump the rest of the pack into submission as needed.