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[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

A lot of trans people and allies watch my videos, so I could talk about the sub a bit whenever I make another one if that would be helpful.

[–]worried19[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

That's a great idea. It would be awesome if you could. That way people would at least be aware that we're out here.

And that reminds me I haven't watched your channel in a while. I see you've got several new videos.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Great! I've got a few things I've been wanting to make videos about lately so it'll probably be this week. I mentioned it in one of the newest videos near the end, but it was very brief.

Sorry for the crying in the latest one if you watch it! 😂 lol lots on my mind...

[–]worried19[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I watched the two most recent ones. I hope you're doing okay. You seemed pretty upset in the newest video. I 100% don't think you have anything to feel bad about. You're not part of the problem just by virtue of having transitioned. I wouldn't expect you to detransition or regret your transition or surgery if you have been otherwise happy with it. The way I look at things, we only get one life. You have to live your life in a way that feels best for you. You're not hurting anyone by being yourself and having gone down the path that made the most sense to you at the time. I don't think anyone here would expect you to martyr yourself for a political belief. I certainly don't. I consider you an ally.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh, thank you, Worried, I'm OK. I just feel like a hypocrite and I wish I could make everyone happy. Thank you for your caring words, that perspective means a lot to me, and thank you for watching my videos. I sincerely appreciate you.

[–]worried19[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Of course, and don't worry about trying to please everyone. That's impossible. No matter how "pure" you think you are, there's always someone claiming to be purer. That's why purity testing is stupid. No one is perfect. No one can be a perfect gender critical person at all times or a perfect feminist at all times. All we can do is try our best.