The only way you could have been born male is if you had been conceived male. The only way you could have been conceived male is if a different sperm, one bearing a Y chromosome instead of an X, had combined with the egg in your mother's fallopian tube. A different sperm would have led to an entirely different individual, not you at all. You can't make the claim that if you had been born male you would have had any particular feelings about it, because you wouldn't have been you at all.