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[–]theory_of_thisan actual straight crossdresser 2 insightful - 7 fun2 insightful - 6 fun3 insightful - 7 fun -  (5 children)

But you see yourself as a minority among women.

Sex is influenced by society, within limits, and I'm skeptical of purity.

I definitely don't think of myself as the norm within men.

[–]worried19 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Whether I'm a minority in how I dress and cut my hair has nothing to do with sex.

Society can certainly twist a person's natural sexuality due to exposure to trauma and other things. But I don't think sexuality is naturally tied to society's gender crap. Just because a women willingly puts on makeup and a dress doesn't mean she wants to act like some porn star stereotype in bed.

[–]theory_of_thisan actual straight crossdresser 2 insightful - 6 fun2 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

If it isn't tied to society then why would changing society change sexual behaviour?

Surely there is a relationship but it's debatable what that is.

Would you say my deviancy is caused by society?

[–]worried19 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Sexuality is not naturally tied to society's gender crap, but society can twist a person's natural sexuality into something different.

Would you say my deviancy is caused by society?

That I don't know. I don't think you were born with a paraphilia. I think it developed due to something in the environment. But I really don't know anything about your life or childhood, so I can't speculate on what would have caused it.

[–]MarkTwainiac 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Would you say my deviancy is caused by society?

It's so telling that this is the sort of thing theory keeps bringing up in a thread about

Is autogynephilia normal in natal women?

Everything is about him and his paraphilia. It's like he doesn't get the joke behind the famous lines, Enough about me. Now let's talk about you. What do you think of me?

[–]worried19 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do actually find the general topic interesting. But he's just very focused on it even in unrelated contexts.