All: Is autogynephilia normal in natal women?

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[–]worried19 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

I think there is some "trans" component in me. I can feel like there is some desire for "female sexual display." I know gc would find this offensive and disgusting but I'm trying to rationalise it and the wider world. In that sense I have that component but I don't think I'm female.

I think it's important not to extrapolate your experience to the female experience. You're male. You've never experienced female sexuality or, more importantly, female socialization and social conditioning. You were not trained to self-sexualize, self-objectify, and engage in "female sexual display" the way the vast majority of girls are. You're a man with a paraphilia. A woman who has sexualized and objectified herself because she's been taught that's the only way to be seen as attractive to her desired partners is in an entirely different boat.

[–]theory_of_thisan actual straight crossdresser 2 insightful - 8 fun2 insightful - 7 fun3 insightful - 8 fun -  (5 children)

Sure, I'm not a woman but obviously I live with what women desire which is masculinity.

You accept you express a form of masculinity, does that include sexuality?

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

obviously I live with what women desire which is masculinity.

Seriously. Just..don’t speak for women. It’s so easy and yet here you are explaining female sexuality as a man with a paraphilia. Gross.

[–]theory_of_thisan actual straight crossdresser 2 insightful - 8 fun2 insightful - 7 fun3 insightful - 8 fun -  (3 children)

But it's absurd not to see that. Saying women (the majority) find masculinity attractive is gross?

[–]MarkTwainiac 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why are you so insistent on projecting your own obsession with "masculinity" and "femininity" (whatever those mean) onto everyone else? You really don't seem to understand that your own preoccupations & inclinations as a male with a particular fetish cannot be assumed to be true of the entire human race.

Your arrogant belief that because you fetishize "femininity" you somehow have insight into female sexuality & psychology is really tiresome, mate. And laughable.

[–]BiologyIsReal 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's bold to suggest you have what all (or most) women want. You're a man. You can't extrapolate your sexual experiences with crossdresing and erotica to all (or any, really) women.

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s absurd for a man with a fetish to try and tell actual women about our own sexualities and inner workings.

Most find males attractive. Masculinity cannot be removed from men without radical change in how we socialise children. But go on, tell us more about our own desires and thoughts. You’re the self appointed expert on expert on what women think.