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[–]MarkTwainiac 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Butch lesbians don't tend to suddenly appear in midlife.

A lot of women who aren't butch have and do come out as lesbians in midlife and later. Some butch women too.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes. Was replying specifically to Theory's scenario re "Jane."

(eta "Jane" is not equivalent to "Stephanie")