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[–]worried19 6 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

It's not even just about bathrooms. I can understand taking a hard line stance on that even if I don't agree. But some posters (one in particular) continually goes around saying that all trans women are pedophiles and rapists. Like, dude, seriously? I think it drags the whole site down when people talk that way. Fortunately, it's not many, but it's a bad look for all of us.

[–]questioningtw[S] 6 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

I hate that too, and I wish more people would call that out, rape and pedophillia are serious crimes and spewing accusations without any evidence IS being hateful.

I also really don't like it when a few of the posters act lik literally all men are horrible. It is like really? How is that any better then MGTOW who act like all women are evil, because they met some shitty women. I know paterarchy exists, but not all men are horrible.

[–]worried19 5 insightful - 6 fun5 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

I think a lot of women there have had really horrible and traumatic shit happen to them. There was a poll on how many of us are rape survivors:

https://ovarit.com/o/Women/8657/how-many-times-have-you-been-raped-in-your-lifetime

That doesn't even count molestation or harassment, just rape. I don't blame women for not trusting men. But the same time, I don't believe half of humanity is just evil. Some men are evil, but it can't be all of them.

[–]questioningtw[S] 6 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

I have luckily never been raped, but have been sexually harassed and had men grope me. I think women are pretty much forced to compartmentalize. Like yes, I HATE those men, but I can't believe all men are like that.