I'm on mobile (the app), and this is a lot to answer, so I'll selectively answer so I won't have to scroll down and up too much (my mobile keyboard covers half of my screen).

I'm GC now because I found out that the general/white LGBT+ community is polluted with white heterosexual males identifying as trans lesbians. The black LGBT+ is not polluted with black heterosexual males... the majority of black trans women are gay males, and the majority of black trans men are gay females hence why I believe they belong in the LGB community even if they identify as straight trans people.

I used to be "QT" (a TRA) when I identified as a guy... I wanted to fit into the heteronormative world. I wanted straight man privileges (as a lesbian identifying as a man). But I came to my senses thanks to my bisexual girlfriend at the time. She essentially told me that women are better than men... she strongly preferred to be with a woman than a man. She was a febfem: female-exclusive bisexual female.

Also, my mom and her eldest living sister are bisexual... they also prefer women over men, although they're married to men for the financial benefits. They've both had extramarital affairs with women. They were second-wave feminists in the 70s and have been sexually liberated since then. So that also made me realize that identifying as a man wasn't right for me... Black bi women don't respect black men. 😂 yeah, that's a generalization. Oh well.