Looking for r/truscum user who was looking for an exchange on offmychest

submitted by bellatrixbells from self.GCdebatesQT

I'm here. Was there an issue in particular you wanted to talk about ? The tampons thing ? You've potentially looked at my history, so you know you probably won't like my stance, but sure, let's see what we can get at.

This is obviously a call out thread as I'm pretty much banned from Reddit and other person does not have an Ovarit account. This is the middle ground they suggested. I'll happily change the title of the thread in accordance with the topic chosen by my would-be debate opponent.

I'm definitely not very active here so I can't promise I'll answer quickly, but I'll regularly check for responses in the next days.

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[–]worried19 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Some context for the rest of us:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/lgqo3z/how_weird_is_it_that_i_a_trans_woman_use_tampons

https://ovarit.com/o/ItsAFetish/17778/tim-on-r-trueoffmychest-asks-if-him-using-pads-and-tampons-is-weird-all-the-comm

[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Jesus that was a roller coaster of filth.

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks worried! Wasn’t sure what this was about.

Also, 🤢! What is wrong with people.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Appreciated! Also, super weird! This should be good debate though, these two are more thoughtful posters and commentators

[–]Taln_Reich 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

so, I am here. So far, I've been talked about on Ovarit four times, twice by name. And I don't like being talked about without being able to defend my viewpoints. Therefore (and since I aknowledge that Reddit is way to happy to ban subs/people who are critical of the pro-transgender position) I suggested taking it out to this place, so we can discuss on neutral ground.

Before I choose a topic, I have a question: In the Ovarit-Thread, you appeared to suggest that I am a trans woman (quote: But guys like him look like they're just enraged that there is a group of women out there that they can't just silence. I wonder if he just rage lurks like "I'm totally a feminist I belong on here why do these (meanies) not acknowledge my womanhood I'm such a better woman than them I'll SO tell my truscum buddies that they're talking about us" lol I honestly don't know. ) or at the very least seem to think that I am of the male birth sex. What makes you think that? I intentionally kept any references to my gender identity or birth sex from my reddit account.

For a discussion topic: well, I've been wanting to make a thread on this sub about "Inclusive language", but not as a "Versus" confrontation between GC and QT, but as a cooperative discussion between them, where the goal is to find a compromise both sides can live with.

[–]worried19 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

For a discussion topic: well, I've been wanting to make a thread on this sub about "Inclusive language"

You absolutely should! We need more discussion here, and to be honest we need quality posters. If you have transmedicalist friends who want to debate, please invite them, too. Right now most of our QT posters are of the tucute variety, and it's impossible to talk with people who keep denying biological sex is even real.

[–]bellatrixbells[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Hey, I'm frankly sorry for the delay. I have my own issues and sometimes just flat out forget that I've engaged in debates... Which is pretty much what happened this week.

I do apologize if there has been a mix-up regarding your identity. I think I remember someone else saying they had looked you up and that you had linked to one of our threads more than once on Reddit. I understood you were one of these MTFs that we see sometimes who want all female only spaces shut down, but it's basically because they're frustrated at not being included. Keep in mind though that O is a radfem space where we—at least I—are pretty much free to speak without filter and we'll naturally have common inside references. I was speaking "about you" in that comment because you were the one being referenced, but I was talking about a type of poster (rage lurker type ?) more than you personally. I don't know if that's clear.

What do you mean, inclusive language ?

[–]Taln_Reich 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

What do you mean, inclusive language ?

the whole "menstruator" and "People with a Cervix" type language.

[–]bellatrixbells[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So you are suggesting having a discussion about how we should change legal/public language in a way that is acceptable to both women/feminists and trans people ? If that is what you are suggesting, either start a thread and tag me if you want me to participate, or I can do it. Check me as present !