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[–]LemurLemur[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Sorry, was that an inappropriate question to ask here?

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No. I’m saying that your line of questioning, which is really just rephrasing people’s statements as the worst possible interpretation, without answering what’s asked of you, is the exact sort of thing that is so frustrating to so many of us.

Obviously politeness and niceness have their place. It’s weird and tangential to say someone being abrasive or blunt in one scenario must believe that being that way is the only way to be in all scenarios. You are ignoring nuance to rephrase something in a way that totally skews the meaning.