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[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

So gay people (both cis and trans) do not get to determine their own boundaries?

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Hey, you’re the one deciding for the gay community. I’m saying let them determine their own boundaries which includes excluding people of the opposite sex from sexual parties.

[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Im simply saying having boundaries doesn't give you the right to be discriminatory. That said, the dating world IS discriminatory. You can refuse to date and sleep with someone for ANY reason, weather it's because they're trans, they're too fat, their race, they have a birthmark, etc. Its fine to refuse to date and sleep with people solely because they're trans, or simply say you're not attracted to trans people. It's not fine to imply trans men are female, or exclude them from general gay spaces like a gay discussion forum or a gay meetup. If that sub was discriminatory towards gay Jews I would feel the same way that they should stop being anti-Semitic. I am Ashkenazi Jewish.

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

So they have the right to reject a woman being at their party but doing so is discrimination and they should feel bad?

Lmao. You are ridiculous.

[–]ColoredTwiceIntersex female, medical malpractice victim, lesbian 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

"We do not forcing you to sleep with anyone, but if you refuse sleeping with transes - you are transphobic and will be cancelled" - typical gaslighting.

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s such a creepy message. “Have sex with me or you’re immoral and I’ll tell everyone you’re terrible” is essentially coercive rape imo.

[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Trans men who are transitioning aren’t women.

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To you.