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[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (14 children)

Can we memorialise this comment somehow? Lesbians and gay men don’t have a right to boundaries or spaces determined by them and for them.

Never seen someone make such an openly homophobic statement here before.

[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (13 children)

Trans gay men are gay men and all gay men, cis or trans, have the right to access gay men's spaces. Full stop.

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

How kind of you to decide this for the gay community.

[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

So gay men don't have the right to access gay spaces? We should memorialize this comment.

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

Homosexual people get to determine it. Not random straight women like yourself declaring what the lesbian and gay communities must do.

memorialise me saying homosexual people have the right to boundaries if you like. Perhaps it will help you to not post blatant homophobia in the future.

[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Trans people are also homosexual and have the right to determine boundaries in homosexual spaces.

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

They do not have the right to impede on others boundaries. Interesting that this one group is, according to you, excluded from respecting the boundaries of others.

[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

So gay people (both cis and trans) do not get to determine their own boundaries?

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Hey, you’re the one deciding for the gay community. I’m saying let them determine their own boundaries which includes excluding people of the opposite sex from sexual parties.

[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Im simply saying having boundaries doesn't give you the right to be discriminatory. That said, the dating world IS discriminatory. You can refuse to date and sleep with someone for ANY reason, weather it's because they're trans, they're too fat, their race, they have a birthmark, etc. Its fine to refuse to date and sleep with people solely because they're trans, or simply say you're not attracted to trans people. It's not fine to imply trans men are female, or exclude them from general gay spaces like a gay discussion forum or a gay meetup. If that sub was discriminatory towards gay Jews I would feel the same way that they should stop being anti-Semitic. I am Ashkenazi Jewish.