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[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

r/askgaybros is a broad gay discussion sub, so of course trans gay men should be allowed. I do agree that some gay spaces are acceptable depending on the point of transition. For example, in this thread Sex party dysphoria NSFW, a man pre op and 2 months into transition was at a gay sex party where the men turned away from him. A user replied:

You were never meant to be there at that point in your transition.

If he were post op and passed more it would be fine for him to be there. But a broad gay discussion forum? Trans gay men at any point of transition can be there.

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Do you think gay men can have boundaries other places or should they always have to accept at least some female people (or lesbians and males)?

[–]GenderbenderShe/her/hers[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It depends on the place and the extent of the trans man's transition. Though no one is obligated to date or have sex with anyone for any reason.