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[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

You don’t have to care about other people but if you don’t give basic courtesy of not openly insulting them you can’t expect productive dialogue.

[–]CatbugMods allow rape victim blaming in this sub :) 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

So no it doesn’t matter that I’m equally insulted by being expected to police my language and deny my lives experiences.

Meaning women’s feelings matter less than the feelings of men who call themselves women. Women who disagree are heartless, don’t care about anyone, and are lacking in empathy.

Hurting a males feelings means women are emotionally/socially wrong.

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I just said you don’t have to care about feelings. But you can’t expect Effective dialogue If you insult someone to their face. This isn’t about feelings at all.

If you take insult from a request not to insult someone you are trying to talk to then I can’t help you. You’ll never have productive dialogue with a trans woman you call a man, because it is a powerful insult.

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I don’t need your help. I need you to understand that to many women, you are displaying the same lack of care that you’re claiming I have.

Someone perceiving a neutral term like male as an insult is not my responsibility to cater to. I don’t care if transwomen want to call me a man because everyone knows they’re wrong. It’s not a dire insult it’s just a wrong description.

[–]Omina_SentenziosaSarcastic Ovalord 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

You' re wasting your time: if you do it, you' re an asshole, if void does it, it' s perfectly legitimate!

Because how you feel does not matter in the fucking least, how dare you equate you feeling insulted with the plight of being misgendered? And they are the ultimate victim! Always.

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It’s always amazed me the circles void talks in and I wonder if it’s why they chose the name.

The entire point they’re making really is just male feelings matter more than the opinions of uncaring women.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Actually I took my name to reflect the crushing depression I used to deal with.

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Weird way to commemorate it but you deal with your depression how you like. Most of us prefer to forget it.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I could see that. I personally like to try to remember how far I’ve come, but mental healthy is deeply personal of course.