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[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Why does everyone need to change the way they use language to accommodate people with gender identity issues?

IME, this is where the whole thing goes off the rails, and it all seems to circle back to psychology:

In insisting that psychological realities (gender, in part) are literally biological realities (sex)

In the high prevalence of Cluster B PDs in TRA circles -- we can't ignore that, because it literally influences how TRAs conceive "reality." Even GD and AGP affect the patient's perceptions of objective reality -- to varying degrees, but the effects are there.

Not pathologizing QT or TRA -- just asserting that where there is an established cohort of mental disorders, disordered perception and cognition about consensual reality also follows. It can't be otherwise.

[–]littlerbear 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Agreed. The only people who insist that their emotional reality MUST be completely true are toddlers and narcissists or other people with serious psychological problems. The rest of us understand that we have to make compromises and that not getting what we want does not literally kill us.

[–]littlerbear 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yes. I believe narcissists have been found to have certain cognitive and intellectual deficits related to their lack of empathy. People with BPD definitely have cognitive processing issues, so do people who suffer from depression. I wouldn't be surprised if people with AGP or GD also have some cognitive problems.

Problem is, these people, whose reality orientations are skewed should not be dictating what and how the rest of us think, perceive, speak, etc. ...

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Absolutely agree.