I think feminists have said a lot of things, and some of them were wrong. Other feminists said they were wrong at the time. But it's a very, very broad collection of activists and theorists. It's pretty fucking annoying that I would have to answer for postmodernists and anti-science types when I just want to work toward a more egalitarian society with better outcomes for women. It's also pretty annoying that people who hate the idea of society changing to make things more equal for women comb through feminist theory to find the least defensible proposals, and interpret these in the least charitable way, in order to pretend that feminists in general are mad.

Like point 4. Why don't you read any one of the many, very plausible explanations of patriarchy that don't rely on conspiracy and get to work addressing structural inequalities? We can talk about the finer points of Dworkin's writing and where we disagree with her when you've already demonstrated your commitment to ending men's sexual violence.