I'm not anti bikini. It's a good way to determine whether a woman is good material for raising children and being a loyal wife.

Every man really needs the indicators and warning signs, the system is against you. It goes up there with high maintenance hair, nails, makeup, excessively expensive clothing, shoes, jewelry, purses, and loud hair colors, short hair cuts, and tattoos. Oh and the obvious feminist bitchy behavior.

None of these in and of themselves are a definite disqualifier, but a couple is a good indicator of what you're getting.

Any woman who is attractive and confidant doesn't need to show you all her nooks and crannies in public with every other man to see. That's for your bedroom when you're married. If she's so desperate for attention, she's insecure and has other issues.