What are we even doing?

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[–]Zombi 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I go for both. Life requires you satisfy your own needs because without those being met, you cannot make others happy (I couldn't at least). I notice I'm able to make others laugh more, be more generous, and overall help others when I myself have my own needs attended to. The better my life is going enables me to better help those around me.

[–]magnora7[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh I agree completely. You cannot make others happy without being happy yourself, but you cannot make yourself happy by completely ignoring others either.

Like on an airplane that is crashing, you need to put on your oxygen mask before you help others put on theirs. Because if you are dead, then you can help no one. I think emotional needs are similar.