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[–]catlover1019 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

x-comment from other post about this thread Explain to me what's so bad about buying kids sex toys. They're gonna masturbate anyways, why not make sure they do it with products designed or it? I'm a guy, and not really into butt play, so I always did fine with just my right hand, but not everyone's in that position. Penetration is really best done with objects designed for it (or both safety and pleasure) rather than with random household objects which is what kids would end up using if they didn't have access to sex toys.

addition: A lot of kids, especially boys start masturbating around that time. How is it worse if the parents know, and "enable" it. Is this really any different that a mother leaving out hand lotion and tissues that she know exactly what her son is gonna use for? The only difference is the lack of the retarded secrecy and pretending about sex. It's really a good difference.

[–]Adolf_Hitler[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I am well aware of when kids start to sexually mature. Pedophiles have been using "sexual liberation" to push for increasingly younger children to be aware of sex to make them easier to take advantage of. The more a child thinks they know about sex, the more willing they are to try it out with someone else, possibly with an adult if they are not carefully and responsibly educated. Dildos for 12 year olds is not a responsible way of educating.

Having the parents provide sex toys for their 12 year old child accelerates their sexual maturity at an unhealthy pace. A 12 year old that knows all of the details of sex is more susceptible to child predators. Kids usually have a natural curiosity towards sex and their knowledge of the subject grows steadily as they grow up. A parent giving them sex toys at that age not only accelerates their sexual maturity, it also creates an unhealthy relationship between the parent and child. I know that if my parents were involved in my masturbation habits I would feel very uneasy about it now.

A 12 year old does not need a sex toy to masturbate. Sex toys are designed for fully grown adults. Sexual education is fine, but there's a world of difference between "masturbate in private and don't get pregnant" and "here's a 8-incher, little Suzy. Let me know if it's big enough!"

[–]catlover1019 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's very obvious that we feel quite differently about this issue. I'd love to actually debate it in full, but I'm pretty sure the admins have decided in advance that me arguing my actual, honest position breaks their new rule on "sexualizing children."