"All women i know go thourgh literal hell and so much pain i can't stand it anymore" - ok that's their choice no one put gun in their head and asked them to marry men, maybe they have to be sad and masochistic to feel that they are women ? Actually I live on easy mode and I am a woman. If you have money, health and live alone (without males) as a woman you live on easy mode. It is not that hard. Extroverted women are the worst they can't do anything alone and seek validation, especially from men. And the whole world is built for extroverts. I actually think that extroverted women have easier on average than introverted men. Of course the easiest is for extroverted men. Be introvert and search for a quite high-paying job without connections yeah... Extroverts live on easy mode for sure reagardless of gender.