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[–]jet199 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

So agreeability is one of the big personality traits common in women across all cultures. Likely it's innate.

Most members of this sub are clearly in the minority of women who don't have it.

However that's not necessarily a bad thing. Agreeability is toxic to creativity. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S019188691100287X If you are nice and spend all your energy oiling the social wheels you aren't going to concentrate on your dreams and ideas.

Stop worrying about the major of women who are quite happy doing their thing no matter how nasty it looks. You have a gift that you get to be selfish with ease and go for want you want without guilt, use it.

Some of middle aged women literally have to go on courses just to learn they can make time for themselves. That concept is beyond my imagining and I'm glad.

[–]palma 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

yeah I just took the test: https://www.truity.com/test/how-agreeable-are-you "Your overall score for Agreeableness is very low" "Your level of altruism is low." "Your level of cooperation is low." "Your level of sympathy is low" LOL

[–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

A good result!