Do you feel that your Kinsey Scale rating is an accurate measure of your sexuality?

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[–]wendyokoopa1 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Yes it is. Last night I started fantasizing about an old male crush after fantasizing about women.

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Well it's possible to have the same dynamic with both a man and a woman. And I'm not into masculine people, but my unsolicited advice is that a masculine woman will most likely be less toxic than a masculine man.

And you can have the dynamic as long as its equal and doesn't get too extreme.

I think it's normal to want things sexually that you know intellectually aren't in your best interests, and the only solution I can see is self-control. Easier said than done.

[–]wendyokoopa1 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah sure is. Why I started to leave dating men though was toxicity. I felt like they were pawing at me and over time I just stopped finding them attractive

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Was it their desperation that was a turn-off? And the entitlement?

[–]wendyokoopa1 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The thirst yes, combined with many negative experiences combined with an on and off attraction to women.