It's true, their rules are self-serving and they don't apply them to themselves.

I've always gone out of my way to be kind to guys who confess to me that they "might be bisexual." They obviously need the support, I don't mind playing pretend if it helps them. As far as I remember they've all gone on to be gay later.

These same guys will wait a couple of decades and spit in my face (metaphorically) and act like they didn't use me as a shield.

Where's my shield?

Why are bisexuals left out in the cold on our own?

Why don't gays feel the same way about us?