Hatred of bisexuals is tied to gay marriage

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[–]clitoriana 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I agree there are some disturbed individuals who just flat-out don't like us bisexuals, and project their insecurities on us. I still can't see the connection to marriage though, unless maybe you're thinking that they harbor a resentment toward us due to our bisexuality technically allowing us another option (hetero marriage)? That has always been an issue that gay people have with us & a reason they don't trust us.

[–]PatsyStone[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I mean the people who carry around the "snotty princess" image of bisexual women in their heads (which can get very detailed!) and will fly off the handle posting bile if they think you've spoken out of place. It's a pattern at this point, and I've seen it happen to others too much to think it's just me. It's like you're just a punching bag and they're fighting with a monster in their heads.

Those people seem to also be more invested in getting married, the superficial trappings of marriage, perfecting their own marriages, etc. Not everyone is. These people are.

If I had to play psychologist, I would guess both are manifesting insecurity. It just seems like such a specific repeated situation I feel like they go hand in hand.

[–]exponent2 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

it's almost like you're too embarrassed to admit that you dont understand that the nature of the community is gay civil rights and confronting the dehumanization of same sex attraction...and how that affects them...and how it's not just about "fun, narcissistic, obnoxious personal identification". HMMM. Almost like the majority of bisexual women have no idea how to interact with normal human beings because theyre so heavily gendered that they struggle to interact with gay men or lesbians and you refuse to acknowledge homosexuals are completely alien to you and dont indulge your selfishness because we're not straight or bi men. You had a personal back and forth with me, you made a really selfish argument which was completely wrong and revealed the nature of your priorities and concern...and then you run here and LIE to everyone about what happened. So... you went through no introspection, you didnt even walk away from that after multiple people called you out to say, "hmm, is it me...or all of them?" and think it might be you. And you affirmed every single thing i said about you. In the heterosexual world or environment, people like you are tolerated for their narcissism as "cute" and since you're a bisexual woman, im guessing the hetero males dont respect you enough to demand you act like a decent human being.... but this "cute" toxicity just rubs everyone the wrong way when you go into the gay world.

What you're doing is the equivalent of a narcissist driving on the wrong side of the highway with every car honking at you and yelling "GUUUUURL POWER! TEHEEHE YOU'RE JUST JEALOUS AND BIPHOBIC!". And we're all aware of the pattern since it's the overwhelming majority. Go harass gays and lesbians with your selfishness, then come running over here like a teenager and lying about what really happened. You basically summed up every single bisexual sub on reddit. You're right. There is a pattern and every gay and lesbian knows it. If you manage to pull your head out of you know what, you'll maybe stop contributing to it.

"i notice a patter with homosexuals concerned with civil rights being angry at bisexuals who think the gay community is about rainbow stickers, alcohol and pride parades" HMMMMM.

[–]PatsyStone[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Any other thoughts?

[–]exponent2 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

just keep honking your horn. all the other cars are driving the wrong side of the road, not you. it's totally not you. "the more they care about gay civil rights, the more they find me superficial and narcissistic!". Even other bisexuals are calling you out. Seriously, how toxic can you get spreading lies and not owning up your faults? i also privately messaged everyone you interacted with and linked them to your comments so they know who theyre dealing with. nice try trying to stir up shit though. your personality and character are meant for the heterosexual world. you'll fit in better over there.