Bisexuals and AGP/AAP Pseudobisexuality

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what's up do you think with the over-representation of homosexuals in those stats (well the furry ones anyway)? you're taking two rare-ish phenomena, the overlap should be statistically low.

Bisexuals I can understand because they would get into it regardless of the sex of the person should the paraphilia be present.

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Since the thread seems to have run its course:

you're taking two rare-ish phenomena, the overlap should be statistically low

Precisely. So the question is: is there a "thing" that inclines people to homosexuality and bisexuality that also inclines them to paraphilia? (I could write an essay on this statement. I know the legacy, the politics, etc.) Do paraphiles demonstrate significant big five trait openness, and this is what causes their same-sex experimentation and thus identity? Or, my preferred hypothesis: it is the paraphilia they're after, and the model of het/homo/bi does not adequately accommodate that?

Dendrophilia is a sexual interest in trees. Classify that as het/homo/bi? You can't.

Bisexuals I can understand because they would get into it regardless of the sex of the person should the paraphilia be present.

While I presently maintain that a person can be classically bi/het/homo and also have a paraphilia, I do believe that people with significant paraphilic interest--things other than sex and sexed bodies--this often leads them to a bisexual identity, since they're doing the paraphilia with both sexes. Sex isn't as relevant to them. It's the paraphilia they're after; sex matters not.

what's up do you think with the over-representation of homosexuals in those stats (well the furry ones anyway)?

I don't know. I need to go suss that one out in person. Could be strictly paraphilic (wouldn't that be something?), could be both euphilic and paraphilic. My gaydar is dialed in, I can discern classic sexual orientation often by just looking at a still of a person's face. (Which shouldn't come as a surprise. Orientation isn't magic; there's lots of biomarkers.) This virus just has to let up, and they have to find a venue to host them. Godspeed, furries.

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I personally wonder if there are sexes or sexualities that are more likely to go develop particular paraphilias. I know there is an under-representation of women in the fury community, but on the flip side there is an A/B/O community on tumblr that is full of (heterosexual) women. It would be possible to argue that they are expressing the same paraphilia differently, but to me these two fetishes (on the surface) look very different.

So maybe there is something about being a gay man that inclines the person towards being a fury cf. other paraphilias?

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I personally wonder if there are sexes or sexualities that are more likely to go develop particular paraphilias.

It's parroted that men posses most paraphilias, but there's no scientific evidence to support this. It's all anecdotal. My anecdotes conflict with the popular opinion, primarily masochism (pain, power, humiliation) in women. A sprinkling of sadism as well. (Think BDSM.)

I think this sentiment is in large part due to the psychiatric and psychological professions having dealt with primarily men as their patients, usually in a criminal context. It may be that men and women are inclined to develop different sorts of paraphilias, different thematic clusters.

However, it could follow that what makes people gay, lesbian, or bi could also incline them towards paraphila, among a great deal of other psychological traits. It's entirely possible, and there's some evidence to suggest it, but that's generally not a politically correct thing to say.

As far as gay and furry goes, I was reading a journal article about a community of zoophiles. Not furries, people who like real animals. (Totally normal hobby, I assure you--reading this sort of stuff.) Among them, there were a cohort (there were several) of men who exclusively desired male animals, and they labeled themselves homosexual. Point being, are these gay furries homosexual in the classic sense and just happen to also be furries? Where is their sense of "male" being derived from in terms of their attractions--male humans, or male anthropomorphic animals? What about a female human in a male-presenting fursuit? Outstanding question.

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

what's up do you think with the over-representation of homosexuals in those stats

Probably they're such fetishists that they require the feeling of disgust to get off, which could be induced by engaging in the same sex as a heterosexual.