Relationships: What People Think Vs What It's Actually Like

submitted by PeakingPeachEater from self.Bisexuals

sorted by:
top
newinsightfulfun
you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]PenseePansy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Ugh, my sympathies! How did that make you feel? I mean, not good, obviously, but in what way? Frustrated? Insulted? Depressed? And (if I'm not being too nosy) were you, um, sexually-enthusiastic about your girlfriend at first? (Or are we talking "girlfriendS" here?-- hope that you didn't have to go through this more than once!) Such that, when she's second-guessing your denial of gayness for the millionth time, it's not long after you've just been very, very UNgay with her? WTF???

Do you know if she ever had a boyfriend who DID turn out to be gay? Or could you tell that this was just a case of plain ol' "bisexuality doesn't exist" + "peen cancels out vajayjay"?

Yet more evidence of why "bi" needs to be UNIVERSALLY recognized as a sexual orientation, stat! Not a euphemism for "gay", not "just a phase", not some mysterious Twilight Zone of sexuality. Though I suppose that even then, people like this chick would still be bugging us-- they'd just move on to "how can I be ENOUGH for you? You MUST always be hankerin' for what I haven't got, right?" etc. Those wacky monosexuals... :(

[–]ElectricSheep 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was definitely "enthusiastic" about her but I think that faded the longer time went on, because of personality differences. There were 2 that became difficult because of this and its not something I'm looking to experience again.