Before getting married my husband and I discussed what our roles were going to be. I wanted a very biblical based marriage and I sure don't regret that choice. It did however, give my husband the option of punishing me when he felt it was needed. My only rules are that he could never hit me when he was angry and he would never beat me.

Yesterday I broke the plumbing in our bathroom in an attempt to try and fix it. He warned me not to touch it and that I was to use the downstairs bathroom until he and his friend could fix it this weekend. But I tried anyway and water got everywhere before I was able to turn it off. It came through the floor and ruined the wallpaper and a tripped the fuse box switch.

Gerald came home and I told him what I did. Well he went for a walk and it's obvious what happened when he came home. I don't really talk about this part of our relationship with too many other people because they won't understand. But my family knows and a friend of mine does too. I'm more sore mentally than physically from the spanking but at the same time I'm relieved that it happened. Accepting this kind of punishment really does test your religious faith and your willingness to submit to your husband.