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[–]Gigababejfl 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yes, I do think it will. We are working on a site right now and in the meantime, we're enjoying a lot of activity on our Discord and SaitIt will remain open for both companies. So long as people check one of these, they will find us :)

[–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Do you mind me asking what you all are about and how Reddit did you wrong?

[–]Gigababejfl 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We are a group of women who come together from around the world through one shared experience. Being too unattractive to find loving relationships. Women are judged primarily, if not only, on appearance so bad appearance affects just about every aspect of your life. This also gets you bullied, overlooked, disrespected and use. Men don't see ugly women and if they do, many target for abuse.

This community tends to draw regular women, people who just feel unattractive. Lots of depression talk, memes. The incel community and the rest of Reddit spread a lot of lies about this group because they believe that since most women can eventually get sex, that the loneliness is not valid. Incels are ridiculous because they are too dignified to pay for sex and say it's about wanting love yet keep repeating how women should offer sex to everyone and she should be fine. Women and men are different and there is no validation in this. In fact it tends to deepen the depression and pain of loneliness.

Reddit, especially male driven groups like AgainstHateReddits and Antipinkpill have decided to spread the rumor that our subreddit was transphobic. They are literally just making shit up like this comment here

I see your point, but it's really more than just 'turn off the computer'. They dox people. They frame the innocent people and their workplace. They send death threat. I know it's still less than systemic oppression that pushes people to cliff, but it's still enough to kill a human being. I think we have to raise more awareness to systemic failure too, but still neglecting this problem only raises the vigilante.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AgainstHateSubreddits/comments/kxez2n/rtrufemcels_just_got_banned

Our sub was pretty insular, allowed women only, had mainly depressive posts, lonely posts, musings, longing. I personally removed and trans conversations out because TRA on reddit tend to lead heavy and hard brigades against any sub who so much whispers anything about trans. That issue also tends to take over subreddits and divide because on our sub, not everyone is "woke" or cares. We have transwomen in our ranks, they just don't present trans issues and politics in. Some women are against them and some are for them but we don't spend much time talking about it to avoid risking our sub

Seems like come people used to sub GC and all other female subs as well which isn't against the rules. We had no calls for violence no extremism, talk shit about moids being lookist and terrible and maybe dying alone. We also would have people try to make it or return back after escaping femcel life to talk and commiserate.

Reddit allows other subs to just accuse without proof. My account was banned for a thread I made about making sure no one posts anything against TOS so we don't risk our sub getting banned and that was labeled hate speech

MGTOW, TheRedPill are hanging out quarantined, PussyPassDenied, WAATGM, seriously many many many threads and comments breaking TOS every which way

We get our main sub and our coed sub banned without warning. The only difference here is we are women

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's fine. Saidit is basically reddit. I just wish more people would participate.

[–]antempirez 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same. It's not great, but it's better than nothing. Like you said, I also wish more people who participate here.

[–]barely-moral 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Fuck reddit and their double standards.

Giga, If you read this, you are a legend and your efforts are noticed and appreciated. I will continue to lurk this spaces and make some questions because the perspective I get from the comunities you create and take care of are something that keeps my worldview in balance.

[–]antempirez 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I second this. Fuck reddit and also Giga is a legend.

[–]EurasianEmpress 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Not bad. Feels like I can get used to using this sub on desktop again, but I still wish there was a SaidIt app. I’m really sad that Trufemcels was banned. It was not a hateful sub at all.

[–]antempirez 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It wasn't a hateful sub, but as I said on another post if a group of men want a sub banned for making them look bad (even though they're the ones making themselves look bad) then it's going to get banned.

[–]discountwalmart 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'd honestly never heard of Saidit before, but I'll definitely give it a chance. I'm just grateful the mods does this for us and allows us to keep having a safe space.

[–]antempirez 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not the greatest so far, but I think after a bit of getting used to it, it's okay. I do hope we find a better place, but i'm glad we have somewhere to post and interact with each other for now. I'm just grateful for Giga and how well she's handling the ban, how quickly she found us a temporary place, and for helping Femcels have a place to interact in the first place.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hope people here aren't as mean as the ones on Reddit. We had so many bullies. I am excited for when our own site is created.