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Is it gay if as a cis man I fuck trans women?(self)

18 points17 points20 points submitted by Adventurous_Ad6212

gloomy_bear 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun 17 days ago

Yes, very.

YoMamma 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun 17 days ago

nope - not at all

it's potentially bisexual

it's also none of our business

gloomy_bear 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun 17 days ago

I would say they're at least bisexual tbh. I'm somebody that prefers feminity and I call myself bisexual due to preferring both feminine females and feminine males. Of course, masculinity can be attractive, but it's very rare for me to be attracted to masculine males and females. Ironically enough, I've only dated two masculine males and one masculine presenting female (but tbh I wonder if she's genuinely feminine).

Of course, if a man likes a transwoman, I don't have any issue with that. The issue is when they dance around the topic and end up playing mental gymnastics on how it's not homosexual sex (if the transsexual is pre-op). Kinda reminds me of those fakebians and bihets who dance around on how they're totally TRUE AND HONEST homosexuals despite being attracted to men.

Fuck the 403 error

YoMamma 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun 16 days ago

Thanks for the explanation. I have to admit I think I've never met anyone who it seems would have called himself or herself a fakebian, bihet or feminine male. I also have trouble using the term 'them' to describe a him or her or a non-binary person, as that's just bad English usage IMO. I'm more familiar with people keeping that stuff to themselves, or at least not bothering me with their special words for themselves. I think that trans women look too much like men to be attrative to straight men, but I think a straight man who is somehow attracted to a trans woman isn't necessarily gay and attracted to other men, even if we could automatically think that. My view is that their sexual preferences are private matters for themselves, and that everyone has his or her kinks, even if initially unaware of them.

gloomy_bear 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun 16 days ago

Well the fakebians and bihets usually call themselves lesbians. Most of the feminine men now days transitioned into a mtf transsexual or a nonbinary generally. And with the they/them stuff, I don't understand language well, so imagine trying to understand that on top of not understanding language. It's hard.