We've been married 4.5 years, shotgun wedding, two kids aged 2 and 4. I'm a teacher and 4 of my coworkers/friends are going to Florida on our spring break. I've asked my husband if I can go with them. We're all women and 4/5 of us are married. We'll be getting a 2 bedroom place in Destin, just to enjoy ourselves and relax on the beach. According to my husband, I shouldn't want to go on a trip with him/the kids. He doesn't want me to go and thinks it's weird. He claims it's morally wrong and makes me feel guilty about having young children and still wanting to go. To me, his behavior is incredibly controlling and insecure. Am I the asshole here? Should I care more about his feelings and not go, even though I think his feelings are wrong? Aren't girls trips and boys trips things normal adults do?
