Am I the asshole for getting mad? I am the blue texts.

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[–]CarbonDioxideHead 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

You asked her if she was talking about you to others behind your back, she said no.

She lied.

You're not in the wrong at all, she's lying to you, betraying your trust and disrespecting you.

Dunno, if you can't trust this woman to exercise some self control and not use you as a gossiping piece, then there's a decent chance that down the line she could demonstrate the same lack of self control and morals and cheat on you, and neatly cover it up with her habit of lying.

Not sure if you're married or what but I'd start thinking about things between you two if I was you.

She's in the wrong, all you did was type a mean message over text as a response. She's currently stabbing you in the back.

Might not be the most moral thing to do but maybe start talking to other women, maybe you'll be lucky enough to find one who isn't a Judas.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

You don't know what the fuck you're talking about. I was literally in a friendly group phone call with these two guys a few days ago, and apparently I am not allowed to talk about Musky's vegetable preferences. I was not gossiping, we were just talking about Thanksgiving dinner. It was not mean spirited in any way.

[–]CarbonDioxideHead 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Thank God I'm not married to you luv.

You lied to him, you have cheated on him, and you're still calling and talking to guys when you're married? Yikes.

Yes, you did gossip about him. Here's the thought process:

He told you something he was vulnerable about, in private. You were aware there was a bit of shame or insecurity there, whatever it may have been.

You told other people about it because you knew it'd probably make them laugh. He was conscious about what he told you, and you used it as a joke and spread it to others regardless of how it'd make him feel.

You gossiped about him.

Let's say you told him something embarrassing, like "I have to wax everyday or I'll grow a moustache"

He goes on a call with two girls and he tells them about that and they all have a good laugh. "Hahaha she should grow it out and be like Steve Harvey lol"

He made you the butt of a joke and gossiped about something you're sensitive about.

See how that works?

Anyway let's be honest, you're a pretty shit wife. (Think your married, could be wrong)

You're a liar, which means he can't trust you. You're a cheater, which means this man is gambling with raising a kid that isn't even his.

You're upset that he calls you a whore and a slut?

He spoke the truth.

I think he'd be better off divorcing you. You both don't seem religious so it's not like your marriage is that committed.

"Until death do us part... in the eyes of the government"

Like, what's the future for you two?

You have kids, you keep cheating on him and lying to him, you become a single mother and a nasty custody battle ensues.

"It's a foolish man, he who builds his house on sand."

Musky should've walked when you cheated on him.

Unless you two want to bring kids into a broken home and play custody wars, I think it's best you split up.

God help Musky, cursed to be bound to a Judas.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

Haha, Musky and I aren't married. This is strictly internet drama.

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

A boring drama

[–]CarbonDioxideHead 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Try to stop stabbing him in the back lol