Am I the asshole for getting mad? I am the blue texts.

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[–]Musky[S] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (12 children)

Top left is the first time it happened, bottom right is the second, top right is the third, bottom left is not a separate incident but I included it for consideration.

The vegetable thing is because this story she shared was something I told her privately about common veggies I have never tried. She plays it off like I'm being a weird asshole over nothing because it is insignificant. But it doesn't matter what the private thing she shared with another guy was, I have asked her repeatedly not to discuss me.

I feel this is not only disrespectful and a blatant disregard for my feelings, but the bitch doesn't even have the decency to own up to it. She's always trying to weasel her way out.

u/shill-for-freedom I know everyone just sees me blow up at her, but goddamn, wtf more can I do besides just not tell her anything.

[–]jet199 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (11 children)

wtf more can I do besides just not tell her anything

Well this is basically what you always have to do. You have to amend your behaviour as you learn what other people are like, you can't do much to amend their's.

I'm a very private person but the rest of my family are very open. I know if I tell my mother something strictly confidentially I might as well tell the whole world so I don't tell her much. No matter how much I shouted and screamed at her as a kid it never changed the way she behaved. In fact I've never known someone to change their level of openness when it comes to talking about other's lives. It's one of those things that is pretty much set in stone so you have to work around that. Looking at the screenshots she clearly doesn't get what you are concerned about and that's not something you can teach her.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (10 children)

I do not broadcast Musky's business to the world, he's just highly sensitive about me talking to one particular person and being very unreasonable.

[–]jet199 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (8 children)

Particular person or men in general, I wonder.

Men know if certain things get out to the bros they will be hearing about them for decades later.

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    [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

    Tru that, let's teach u/zom to man up

    [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

    😧

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      [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

      You are not my internet girlfriend.

      [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

      Why do you at people?

      [–]Musky[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

      he's just highly sensitive about me talking to one particular person

      Yes, and I love Smokey, but there's some things I'm not comfortable about since you swapped me with him for a week.

      being very unreasonable

      I disagree, but reasonable or not, they are my feelings, and this is you disregarding them.