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[–]gloomy_bear[S] 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

Also to add I'm usually a 5/10 but obesity and bad social skills might make me a 4 or 3/10 currently

[–]Bigs 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know a 8/10 tall, leggy, slim and intelligent lady who is 41 and still a virgin (we flirt outrageously but I'm happily married).

My point is being a virgin doesn't mean much by itself.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Why is that female human beings - if they identify as such - seemingly always give so much about their appearance ?

This is a question that nags me all my life. My valuing of human beings just doesn't "work" this way.

And i really just don't get it. No matter who answers this ancient question of mine.

Even my two most favorite psychologist and psychiatrist gals couldn't, miserably.

[–]gloomy_bear[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I dunno, but there seems to be very harsh beauty standards in some countries. Maybe that could be it?

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I can agree. People see those pictures all too often and then magically believe these standards to be their own.

Sounds plausible. Very miserable for the affected, nonetheless. But plausible.