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Would I be considered a femcel?
submitted 1 year ago by gloomy_bear from self.AskSaidIt
I'm a virgin but I don't hate men or women I just never done it.
[–]LarrySwinger2 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun - 1 year ago (1 child)
btw I'm a girl
[–]Diesel 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Oops!
[–]Questionable 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
The first letter of the acronym incel means Involuntary. And none of it has anything to do with hate. Nor is 'femcel' accurate as the first self proclaimed incel was a woman. Consider the following:
https://conspiracies.win/p/15JAEy5Is0/weird--for-being-a-bunch-of-balo/c/
And understand that everything you know to be true is wrong.
[–]yabut 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
yabut is here 4u bby
[–]gloomy_bear[S] 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun - 1 year ago (4 children)
Also to add I'm usually a 5/10 but obesity and bad social skills might make me a 4 or 3/10 currently
[–]Bigs 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
I know a 8/10 tall, leggy, slim and intelligent lady who is 41 and still a virgin (we flirt outrageously but I'm happily married).
My point is being a virgin doesn't mean much by itself.
[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (2 children)
Why is that female human beings - if they identify as such - seemingly always give so much about their appearance ?
This is a question that nags me all my life. My valuing of human beings just doesn't "work" this way.
And i really just don't get it. No matter who answers this ancient question of mine.
Even my two most favorite psychologist and psychiatrist gals couldn't, miserably.
[–]gloomy_bear[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago (1 child)
I dunno, but there seems to be very harsh beauty standards in some countries. Maybe that could be it?
[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 1 year ago* (0 children)
I can agree. People see those pictures all too often and then magically believe these standards to be their own.
Sounds plausible. Very miserable for the affected, nonetheless. But plausible.
[–]IkeConn 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
Bless your heart.
[–]yelgy 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun - 1 year ago (1 child)
u/yabbit what do you think brocel
[–]yabbit 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun - 1 year ago (0 children)
yelgy stop tagging me brocel
[–]FlyingKangaroo 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 12 months ago (1 child)
Not a femcel (I assume femcel is used in a negative context, like a counterpart to incel).
[–]gloomy_bear[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 11 months ago (0 children)
Okay good
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