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[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

post a picture or video of derik

[–]Randabanana[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

It's been a while, but I did post a "before his stroke" picture. Were you thinking just more frequent or how he is now photos?

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Just a nice big picture of his face. Before or after doesn't matter. That picture in the updates is buried. He can be the main photo, not the medical image.

A family photo might be even better.

[–]Randabanana[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I'm wary of a family photo because I don't want pictures of our kids in the public view... There are certain members of my family that I don't want to have any photos of my kids so my circle is very, very small when it comes to them.

[–]iDontShift 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

you can't have your cake and eat it too

the exposure allows people to verify you exist, your cause is real

you can't have anonymity and get crowdfunding too

get in the local paper, then you can point to the story

[–]Randabanana[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I dont post photos of my kids because they are little kids. There are people in my life I do not want to have photos of my children. One of them a relative who is a convicted sex offender relating to the rape and molestation of more than one child.

[–]iDontShift 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

it doesn't matter . without exposure there is ability to trust