Why do women only go for asshole bad boys and refuse to date good guys like us?

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[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Women are attracted to power, not people. Whether it is physical power, aesthetic power, economic power or social power. Bad boys seem to have power to impose their will.

But this raises the question: if women are attracted to power and not people—that is, they’re incapable of loving men in the way they fantasize—what is the point of dating women? No homo, but it is better to find a hobby and pursue it rather than chase women. Loneliness is just an unfortunate side effect of being alive.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's good to want to have hobbies and buddies, but nothing can replicate or replace the experience of sex with the opposite gender and the other relationship elements associated with that.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Other relationship elements feel good, but they are false. Once you run out of resources the woman you love want to move on.