Your whole post is so wrong about me or my relationship. I've been warned that this might not be the proper place to have a adult conversation without implying that I must be a "femanon here". What even is that? I'm doing my own thing, a member on saidit since a year or two, immigrated from Voat (2017-2019 R.I.P. I have nothing to do with the fem, XX terf crowd. I only started to casualy lurk and agree with them regarding trans madness on rdt. I'm not part of any groups but my own army.

I was making this post to find people with similiar experiences and not my first internet troll stalker and you-who got it so wrong to the universe and back.

My boyfriend loves me, his friends like me. They all love to hang around me and my place because I am chill. Sounds like bragging, probably is but still the truth. They don't even go to his place and rather stay at mine.

I don't ask him for much and he knows how lucky he is to have me. He is not the only one to know the facts. He can pull off shit without me being bothered, unlike his exes or the moody bitches of his best friends.

We are both busy during the week, only having breakfast in the morning and maybe 2-3 hours in the evening before he falls asleep during a movie. I rather spend the weekend buying a new bed, fixing our shower curtains, spending the whole weekend in bed with him or do other things together as a couple. I don't want another weekend with him "chilling with the booois!" and cleaning up after them on Sundays/Mondays.

You missed my point. He loves me for being me and not giving a shit. My neighbourhood is very convenient for him. He's loves my places and using it as a club for his friends. He knows that none of his friends wants to visit him in the land of the death. I live next to 2 of his best friends and everyone else, have a pc and playstation, got pubs, clubs, 24hour corner shops, dealers in my area, and always a well cooked warm meal ready (his friends girls can't and won't cook) and a bed to crash on.

He knows what he's got in me. He sees that other men are hitting on me (two of them his friends, let's talk about Bros before Hoes. I was the only sincere person and told him about his bros hitting on me behind his back. Another story)

You got almost everything wrong in your biased relationship analysis. He needs me more that I need him. He earns more but is more dependent on me than vice versa. I'm very independent, always doing my own things, he is insecure and lying. The first time about his . I could leave him now and he would be the one coming back.

You are painting me as the devil for wanting to spend more time with my partner alone without his friends at the weekends. We can't get shit done because it's either full house or he's not at home, I'm not always with them. You don't know nothing about us, and how he can basically do whatever he wants to do. I believe in independent partnerships, meaning: I'm not wasting my time on jealousy, games or drama. You cheat or lie on me, you know what's going to happen. I'm leaving. No drama, just moving on.

I'm undecided if I'm going to delete or move this post. It doesn't seem to be the right place and I'm already done and made my decision.