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[–]FediNetizen 18 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

Yet again, I'm being the bigger person and stepping away from the futile nonsense

Nah, you're just narc raging because someone is telling you your behavior isn't acceptable, and you don't want to hear it. There are a ton of parallels here between you and that guy that ran the nazi subreddit who kept making new accounts to try to "appeal" the decision.

[–]JasonCarswell[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I can see how you might think that. But I DO want to hear it though. That's why I'm asking. I don't want to hear it from him, a proven liar, mediocre leader, and inadequate manager who's not the boss of me but desperately tries to be - even inventing new rules for me while ignoring other more important issues.

If everyone agrees with you, whether independent thinkers or authoritarian loving boot-lickers, then I'll have to face facts, swallow my pride, apologize, and "behave". I can almost guarantee you he will never do that.

If I was raging I'd be angry. I'm not angry. Also, I could have brought all this shit up before last time, the time before that, and the many many many times before that. He has been riding my ass for years, but I'm not letting him slide as much now so it's more frequent.

[–]Node 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

then I'll have to face facts, swallow my pride, apologize, and "behave".

I'm pretty irritated over that bullshit I linked in my other comment, so I maybe have a sense of how you feel. it might help to remember this is just a commenting site on the internet, and it can be easy to put too much focus on it if you're not careful.

If you both stopped poking at each other for a bit, and let the tensions cool off, the issues might not seem so critical later? You don't necessarily have to swallow your pride and all that.