I hear what you’re saying, and it’s reflected in the mission statement as to not to use slurs on a habitual basis. Sometimes slur usage is in fact necessary to the conversation, as in the one we are having with my saying that if “tranny” is invoked by people in the news it’s ok to report as to what exactly they said.

And when it’s not—such as someone saying “trannysourus” then that’s a gray area that is best handled with communication at the outset. Like I said, if an example seems particularly egregious, just dm the user. There are tons of Ovarittes I’ve heard from unhappy with post-deleting micromanagement over shit 90 percent of them would have redacted given the chance in good faith. Some asshole coming in and posting FUCK TRANNIES over and over again is not coming here in good faith whereas someone making one single joke reference probably is.