I agree.

I like to fight for minority rights, especially transgender women of color, they are better than all of us and should be worshipped, but at the end of the day I want a big blonde blue-eyed woman.

I imagine her doing my taxes wearing nothing but a bacon dress. Tell me all about those deductibles sweet thang whilst you eat your bacon dress off.

gender has meant the same thing as sex for almost as long as the word existed

Not quite.

The word "gender" meaning "class or kind" goes back to around 1300, which is now effectively obsolete except for very specialised uses like the gender of plugs (male or female). It took about a century for the grammatical meaning to appear, and another century for people to start using "gender" as a humorous, deliberately over-technical term for the two sexes. A little like using "sanitation engineer" for the guy who picks up the trash, or perhaps something like "Marines are a different species from the rest of us".

But the modern use of gender as a euphemism for "sex" comes from the second half of the 20th century, and the even more modern sense of gender as some nebulous, undefined and undefinable feeling about what sex you are is even more recent. Euphemisms are bad enough, but the modern "gender" is self-contradictory and incoherent nonsense on stilts.

If you ask trans activists, they themselves cannot decide whether sex and gender are different, or rather, they will flip from one belief to the other whenever convenient:

• Gender identity is a social construct that has nothing to do with the two male and female sexes;
• but "sex is a spectrum" and there are more than two sexes;
• and trans women are real women;
• gender identity is inherent to me, and has nothing to do with social expectations;
• but if society calls me by the wrong pronoun, or "dead-names" me, my identity is destroyed like a delicate flower in a nuclear blast.

Don't expect this to make sense. It doesn't, and the TRAs like it that way.

This is gonna reek. One they fine one issue, then suddenly there’s lots of other issues.

I use a lot of Frank's. It's got a nice flavor besides the little bit of heat.